This is SO important for people to realize…so often i have had people ask me why they are the same weight as myself or someone else, but they wear a different size, or complain that they look so very different. Body composition people, and skeletal structure. We are each unique. Don’t ever compare yourself to someone else in a negative way.
except actually you do bc the only reason you’re inclined to do that is bc the patriarchy has ingrained it into your brain so much that you actually think you want it. critically analyze your choices.
except actually you don’t because for a lot of people, the patriarchy isn’t even a factor, they just like the feeling of wearing lipstick or shaving their legs or fucking smiling. get down off your fucking cynical holier-than-thou white horse and realise that sometimes people do things /because they want to feel good/ u obscenely lamentable fuckbiscuit
the only domestic instinct my parents have managed to pass on to me is the tendency to hoard multiple plastic bags in another plastic bag despite the fact that I will probably never need this many plastic bags in my adult life
mostly fandoms, funny things, and randomness. occasionally sad things ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Maggie. 16. Theatre Geek. Nerdfighter. Whovian. Potterhead. Catholic. Professional Spencer Reid and Aaron Tveit fangirl. Slytherin.